Better Choices in a Male Chastity Toy


When I first decided to get a male chastity toy, I had to go into a store that sold bondage gear and pick between three different designs. It was easy to figure out which one to pick and I was happy with my decision. These days are a lot different, though. The Internet is the biggest place to purchase your toys from and that means you have to look through thousands of different sites offering thousands of different designs. If I was just getting involved in something like this, I would find it highly confusing and probably wouldn’t get very far with it at all.


I have been amused at seeing some of the newer male chastity toy options that are available on the market, though. I am sure there are quite a few of these toys that I probably wouldn’t feel all that comfortable wearing, but I do love looking at them online. There is something so exciting about looking at what guys are wearing these days and thinking back on when I only had three selections to choose from. I do love the fact that more guys are getting involved in this and changing the way things are being made.

I have purchased a couple of different male chastity toy items over the years, but they are all basically the same design. I find that making drastic changes in the design of what I am locking my cock up in is difficult for me to get used to. But I do know that there are times when I need a change or buy something new to replace an older toy. It takes a bit of time for me to get used to the new toy, but I feel that is all part of the fun of getting involved with something like this.


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A Random Male Chastity Toy

I found a male chastity toy online that I really want to try out but I don’t know if I would be able to handle it or not. I haven’t tried anything like this before so it was completely new to me to be thinking this way. All I knew is that I wanted to start enjoying my life in different ways and when I saw that toy I knew that was the way I wanted to go about it. I had to try it out so I went ahead and purchased it in the hopes that I would actually enjoy it eventually.

I will say that picking out a random male chastity toy probably isn’t the best way to go about things. I knew I should at least do some research on what I was getting myself involved in, but that wasn’t something I was thinking about at the time. I figured I would simply try it out and see what I thought about it from there. If I didn’t like it, then I would simply put it away somewhere and not think about it again. Thankfully, that isn’t what happened, although it did take a couple of tries to get used to it.

Using my male chastity toy has been one of the best things in my life. I didn’t really think that I was going to be able to get used to it the first time I tried it out, but the awkward phase didn’t last all that long. I found that looking around online did give me some information about what I was doing and that made things much better for me in the long run. Now I can use my toy anytime I want and enjoy it without thinking I might be doing something wrong in the process.  Spandex fetish wear for men


Male Chastity Toy Shopping

Male Chastity Toy Shopping

When picking out a new male chastity toy you need to think about a few things. The first is what kind of experience you are actually looking for. Are you looking for something that you can use out in public or something that is specifically used in the bedroom? There are so many different types of toys that you can find online that answering these questions are probably going to take you longer than any other aspect of finding something to play with. But once you have answered them; it will make things a lot easier on your search for your new toy.

I recently decided to look around for a new male chastity toy and found that I had been out of the loop for a while. I didn’t spend all that much time online looking for chastity based items before and, after a couple of years of enjoying what I already had, I wasn’t quite prepared for the amount of toys that I came across. The sheer number of things that had become available over those couple of years astounded me and I felt like I was at a loss for finding something that I could truly enjoy using.

The good news is that I was able to narrow down that huge list of male chastity toy sites into something a bit more manageable so that I could find a toy that was going to suit my needs. Now I can look through a couple of sites and find something that will push my limits of pleasure, but won’t make me regret buying it. If I would have purchased something a couple years ago without being able to research it, then I probably wouldn’t be where I am right now with my toys and I am sure my life would be way different than it is. So I’m pretty sure that things worked out for the best.

Discovering a Male Chastity Toy to Change My Sex Life

Discovering a Male Chastity Toy to Change My Sex Life

I started looking around for a male chastity toy that I could use in the bedroom while my wife and I were having some fun. I figured that she had all kinds of toys that she could have fun with, but I didn’t really have anything available to me. A friend of mine told me about the chastity toys that he was using in the bedroom and I figured I would give them a shot. I wasn’t exactly sure what to expect from them, but a few hours of online browsing had me thinking that this was something I should have been involved in a lot sooner.

I went from one male chastity toy to the next reading all the information I could find on them and how to use them. I watched videos online of them being used and couldn’t believe that something this wonderful had been hidden from me for all these years. This is the type of thing that I had always been looking for, but didn’t have any idea of what to call them or how to describe them. To think that they had basically been right in front of me just seemed like a cruel joke of some kind.

I picked out a male chastity toy and asked my wife what she thought about it. She wasn’t exactly sure that using something like that in the bedroom was something she wanted to be a part of at first, but after reading through some sites she changed her mind. Actually, she got extremely excited about the thought of having something like this in the bedroom and wanted me to have it rush delivered so that we could use it as soon as possible. I will say that my wife hasn’t brought out as many of her toys anymore since I got mine, and that is rather interesting as well as exciting to me.

Adjusting to New Male Chastity Toy Options

Adjusting to New Male Chastity Toy Options

Most male chastity toy options that I have found online are a bit strange to me. I know that there are guys using them and enjoying everything about them, but I find it rather odd that some of these toys look like torture devices. The chastity device itself looks like a torture chamber at times, but some of these toys are completely shocking in appearance; at least to me anyway. Of course once you start using them, you will find that there isn’t any reason to fear these toys and you can actually start to enjoy yourself a bit more on a regular basis.

Some of the male chastity toy options that I have used in the past were fairly common to people that weren’t involved in chastity, but the ones that I have seen lately have taken on lives of their own it seems. I have gotten lost in browsing through some of these options online as I wonder what it is about them that guys seem to like so much. I would try them out myself, but I feel that I might end up losing myself in the moment and not be able to find my way back to my normal life.

I love using a male chastity toy when the moment is right, but I have a strong feeling that I might be tempted to give up everything I have in order to enjoy some of these toys for long periods of time. I do have an addictive personality and I am sure that there would be times when I wouldn’t even come out of my bedroom because of those toys. So I will just have to be happy with using the older toys that I have and looking at all the newer ones that are being designed for websites all over the Internet. Perhaps one day I can venture into the realm of the newer versions without worry.


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Finding that Perfect Male Chastity Toy

Finding that Perfect Male Chastity Toy

Picking out a new male chastity toy is one of the more difficult aspects of my life right now. Everything else in my life seems to be falling right into place, but deciding on which toy I should try out next has me absolutely baffled most of the time. I know I can just order something and get used to it, but I want to make sure that the toy I am buying is something that will change my world from the very first time I use it. If it doesn’t do that, then I feel like I have wasted a bunch of money that I could have used for something else in my life.

I have looked around on male chastity toy websites for the last couple of months and nothing that I have seen looks like it would be anything to brag about in a letter to home. Not that I would be telling anyone from home that I am using things like this, but I want my next toy to be something special to me. I want to know that what I am getting involved in is going to make a difference in the way I view my life from here on out.


Just because I haven’t been able to find the right male chastity toy just yet doesn’t mean that I am going to stop looking for it, though. I know there is a website out there somewhere that has the perfect toy for me and all I have to do is figure out where it is. Once I have found the perfect site, it’s just a matter of time before I end up finding the toy that I have been searching for my entire adult life. All I can do is hope that I come across that site sooner rather than later in my life.

A Male Chastity Toy for Everyone

A Male Chastity Toy for Everyone

A lot of men may be asking “what the hell is a male chastity toy” as they read the heading of this post. In all honesty, that would be a valid question because there are probably more answers to it than any one person can find. To make things simple, a basic definition of this item is that it’s a device used to play with when a man is involved in male chastity. This can be a cage that’s locked around your cock with the key thrown away or it can be something as simple as a sheath that fastens around your cock and is locked in place.

In short, whatever keeps your cock from having fun in a sexual way, as in getting an erection, is what a male chastity toy is. Calling it a toy may not be exactly the right term because it’s not used to get a man off, but it’s still a toy because it’s something of a sexual nature. For the men that wear or use these toys, it’s exciting to not be able to get an erection. That’s the draw for these guys.

Now, a male chastity toy that causes pain may not be the most popular of all of these devices, but you can bet that they have their own place in chastity play. Some guys like the feeling of those little spikes that can be added to the leather sheathes digging into their cocks while they’re trying so very hard to get erect. These little spikes can cause a lot of discomfort but, most of the time, they keep an erection at bay, which is the whole point of wearing them.

If you’re looking for a more extreme male chastity toy, you can always find them online even when you can’t find them in your local adult stores. Don’t give up until you find what you’re looking for.

Splurge on the Best Male Chastity Toy

Splurge on the Best Male Chastity Toy

Finding the perfect male chastity toy isn’t as difficult as you might think when you start looking around online at all the sites that are carrying them. The amount of these sites that are available will absolutely shock you considering there weren’t all that many of them just a couple of years ago. But now there are more men that are looking for things of this nature and that means the supply has to meet the demand that is out there. Now, it’s almost impossible to not find a website that has these items for sell.

Of course, just because there are a lot of these male chastity toy options available doesn’t necessarily mean that it’s going to be easy to pick one out of the thousands that are available. You might find yourself searching through websites for days in order to find the right toys for your mood and never actually come across the one that you should have. Don’t let that stop you from continuing to look, though. Looking is part of the fun of trying them out in the hopes that you can find a toy that will unlock that primal urge inside you after all.

Once you do find that male chastity toy that fits in perfectly with your life, there is nothing you wouldn’t do to get it. The good news is that there are sites out there that have these perfect toys for a very reasonable price. Not only can you get them fairly cheap, but you also get the quality that you deserve with most of these items. That quality means a lot when you are using things like this on a regular basis and you don’t want to go the cheap route only to find out why you shouldn’t purchase lower quality toys. Spend the extra couple of bucks and get the good stuff whenever you can. Otherwise, you’ll never find the true fulfillment with them.

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There are many more male chastity toy design out there that are not cock cages. Yes cock cages are the number one male chastity toy because they are so effective they take sexual please and the control of orgasm away fro the wearer and give it to the master if he is a slave or more often than not these days it goes to the wife, boyfriend or girlfriend that has decided for many different reason that it is time to enforce the wearing and or use of a male chastity toy. Using the word toy is a funny thing because most of the cock cages, ass hooks and other forms of humiliation are anything but toys. The term male chastity toy comes from the adult industry for retailing purposes. Don’t let the name fool you. If you are forced to wear one a toy will be the last thought on your mind.

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